Moving on doesn't mean you have forgotten; it means you have accepted what happened in the past and choose to continue living in the present. Moving on doesn't mean you’re giving up; it means you’re giving yourself another chance by making a choice to be happy rather than hurt.
Through all the problems you have faced, the burdens weighing down on your shoulders, the pain in your heart, you have only one thing to say;
“I survived and I now know better for next time".
Back Towards Light
the blame game
"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."― Wayne W. Dyer
Changes are work! They do not come from a quick moment of insight. They do not come from a quote. They come from continuous and consistent effort to watch ourselves and then be self-disciplined in action which bring us towards our goals. We must be committed to watch our thoughts, to watch our feelings and to watch our behaviors.
As humans we are blessed to be able to watch ourselves. We can observe our own inner workings almost as if looking we are looking from the outside in. If we use this in a healthy way, not a self-condemning way, but in a healthy compassionate way we will slowly become deeply acquainted with ourselves and the paths we need to take will slowly begin to be illuminated by our mindful compassionate approach to growth.
Flourishing Life Society